We’re thrilled that Gabrielle & Chris’s wedding is up on Martha Stewart Weddings! {Click here} to see the feature!
photo: Gia Canali
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We loved so many things about this wedding, not the least of which was the couple’s dog, Lola, who was a total show-stopper with her sweet and spunky personality. Rare is a wedding as thoughtfully and soulfully planned out as this one. The couple considered every single detail, and Amy Kaneko designed their extraordinary lush, natural ceremony “altar,” the olive tree “guest book” (aka wishing tree) and the escort card tree, which was hung with mica “fairies,” crystals, and quotes from the bride’s brother’s poetry, as a memorial to him. The escort cards were hand-wrapped with wire and attached to gemstones that matched the gemstone table names.
The bride planned a ton of extra time for getting ready and for pre-ceremony photographs, so that no matter what, they wouldn’t be rushed or stressed out as they prepared themselves for their ceremony. This kind of foresight had great pay-off, not just for the couple, but also for their photographs. They look well-composed, relaxed, happy, and excited because they are well-composed, relaxed, happy, and excited. (What a good trick, huh?!).
photos: Gia Canali
design & planning: Amy Kaneko Events; venue: Meadowood; videography: LoveSpun Films; florals: Cherries Flowers; officiant: Dr. Judith Caldwell; Linens: La Tavola Linens; Rentals: Hartmann Studios; Hair & makeup: Sarah Hyde; On-Site Dressing/Pressing: SewHeidi Wedding De-Tailor (707.479.0790); Paper goods, Gemstone escort cards, Table numbers: Amy Kaneko Events
To reiterate (because I say let’s hear it again):
“No matter how many times people warn you about how fast it will feel, it feels faster”
Victoria & Nick, June 18, 2011
photo: Gia Canali
Now, finally on to Jess and TJ’s actual wedding day! By the morning of the wedding, it really did feel—as Jess and TJ had so hoped and schemed—like everyone there was one big family. We woke before dawn to take in the “jingle” with some of TJ’s cousins. Then, everybody else began readying themselves for the day. I’m not sure what I could really say to do this wedding justice, so I’m keeping my notes uncharacteristically brief.
Jess and TJ saw each other for the first time in a wide open field, a couple of hours before the ceremony was scheduled to start. We had planned to make a bunch of portraits during that time … but it started to rain just as they finished with that first quiet moment, so we retreated to stay dry. Wedding party and immediate family portraits were made in the little sliver of shelter under the eaves of the barn.
Jess’s grandfather was quite the photographer in his day, and he even used to make carbro prints (the vintage photographic process on which I have the second biggest crush). So when he asked me to make a portrait of him (with his bow tie!), I obliged using one of my favorite vintage cameras.
Jess and TJ’s wedding ceremony was perhaps my favorite part of the whole weekend. It took place atop a cliff overlooking an incredible valley. We loved how they made the ceremony so, so personal … and got everybody involved! One friend officiated, others did readings, or sang songs. Their dog, Midas, was the ring bearer (bearing the real rings). And Jess and TJ’s guests had sent them pieces of fabric with their reply cards to make a quilt that was incorporated into the ceremony. Here’s what Jess says:
“I wrote the ceremony (which I would also recommend since it made it sooo personal for us) and as part of that, we did a “community blessing” where everyone in the audience held hands and connected all the way to us—as we were wrapped in the quilt with pieces of them all around us. It was one of my favorite moments of the ceremony, and maybe one of my favorite pics from the entire wedding (maybe also because this was when it started to pour rain!). We then used the quilt as a backdrop for our photo booth which was fun because people got to go up and pick out where their piece was on the quilt. TJ and I now have the quilt on our bed and it’s an awesome reminder of that amazing moment.”
I did my best to hide under an umbrella while the rain pour downed and keep my cameras (more or less) dryish while I was shooting (although I was more conspicuous than I would have wanted to be for sure). But I love the photos from the recessional, with light reflecting through raindrops on my lens glass. By then, I think I’d dashed out from under the umbrella!
Guests moved to the indoor rodeo arena for dinner, dancing, and bull-riding. Despite the enormity of the space or the fact that it was really (really!) just a barn, Jess and TJ made it feel cozy, welcoming and even (kind of, but not too) fancy. The warm happy color palette seemed especially appropriate after a day that had gone from clear and beautiful, to dark and stormy, to rainbows …
Below: Jess and TJ’s first dance and the beginnings of a long, happy night of dancing.
The photo booth was so fun! You might recognize the quilt, re-purposed …
Maybe the best thing, though, was the mechanical bull! I loved seeing everybody’s best wild west moves! Jess made the operator buck her off (although she really, really didn’t want to buck the bride). It was so funny!
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The wedding is featured {here} today on 100 Layer Cake (hooray!). Be sure to stop back tomorrow and Friday for photographs from Jess’s bridal session and Jess and TJ’s post-wedding love shoot, plus a peek at some of their paper goods …
photographs: Gia Canali
wedding planning: Stacy McCain; wedding design, Duet Events (the bride and her friend’s design company); florals, Sweet Pea Flowers, Denver; lighting & other magic tricks, Pink Monkey Solutions; dj: DJ Smiles Davis; dessert buffet, Tee and Cakes; venue and catering: C Lazy U Ranch
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With Mother’s Day coming up this weekend, I thought I’d share a tear from Brides magazine, which just came in the mail. It offers some great ideas for honoring your mother on your wedding day. I, for one, certainly wish that I’d walked down the aisle with both my father and my mother. (Honestly, my husband and I agree that if we had one thing to do over, we would have honored all of our parents more at our wedding. It seems sometimes like the father of the bride is the only one who comes with “built in” moments in the spotlight.) And I love this mother-daughter dance tradition (suggestion #15), though I’ve seen it only once … at the wedding pictured above.
If you’d like to see more photos from this wedding, we featured it awhile back {here}.
photo: Gia Canali
I don’t know if anything will ever be better than seven of them, but even just one is pretty spectacular. Kids can take to their wedding duties with such very adult seriousness. Or not.
photo: Gia Canali
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S & E’s wedding embodied all the most elegant and magical things about wine country and we were thrilled that it was featured in this year’s C Weddings. So we thought we should offer a closer look at the wedding in its intricate and well-designed detail. Below: the bride’s ceremony-ready updo; bouquet of peonies and garden roses by Sharla Flock (complete with mint and dusty miller Sharla plucked from her own garden!); ceremony set in the ruins of an old winery. During the recessional, the bride and groom were followed out by a New Orlean’s style jazz band (!).
A ceremony design note: wide aisles are wonderful, and afford excellent vantage points for photographers and guests alike. If you have the space, make a wide aisle.
During cocktails, Stacy McCain and her crew oversaw the transformation of the ruins area into a dining area. We love the centerpiece design by Sharla Flock. (I also worked with her on this inventive wedding last spring). Meanwhile, the bride was transforming her look, too. The bride and groom had a busy schedule, but we were happy to catch them here and there, in between the various parts of the day.
Dessert, dancing, and self-portrait-taking in the barn followed dinner. If you look closely above and below, you’ll see some of the many musical ensembles that contributed to the festive mood of the wedding from beginning to end. One thing we loved about the wedding was how very different each part of the day looked and felt. Musical cues were as important as visual ones. We also loved how personal the food felt. The groom’s family contributed produce from their farm, including almonds for badam kheer, a traditional Indian dessert drink (that I am now mildly obsessed with … and have started making regularly on my own!). The couple departed the reception in a vintage Packard. I love the grand exit as a photo op (even if I am, as I was here, the only one there to witness it).
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photos: Gia Canali; planning & design: Stacy McCain Events; floral design: Sharla Flock; music (!!): Ed Ivey, Bay Area Booking; bride’s gown, Vera Wang; stationery, Hello!Lucky; lighting, Got Light; venue: Annadel Estate; catering: Paula LeDuc Fine Catering
Your wedding day will already feel like it’s moving by at lightning speed. I can tell you that for sure. And while nobody wants the ceremony to go on-and-on-and-on, the wedding ceremony is—truly—the wedding. You want to remember these moments. And not only by photographs.
But, frankly, you do want to give your photographer enough time to capture great images of all the goings on—not just with you and your beloved, but also with your attendants, friends, and family (sometimes the reactions are priceless). So, take a deep breath and look around while it’s all happening. Don’t rush yourselves. And while you’re soaking up your real life ceremony, your photographer can work on creating a beautiful and varied record of those fleet-footed moments.
(I’m hesitant to put a number of minutes as a minimum on your ceremony, but I’d say: planning a ceremony that is shorter than fifteen minutes should give you pause. Everyone is going to talk faster and walk faster on the day of the wedding. They’ll be excited. As a bride, I was so excited—and also so unfamiliar with the music—that my dad and I processed in at the wrong time. Not that I really cared. I just wanted to get on with it!)
photo: Gia Canali
